Why Russian women want to marry men from abroad.

There are a lot of controversial facts about Russian women. Though the majority of respondents in various studies agree that Russian women are the most beautiful on the planet, there are also some concerns as of sincerity of Russian women seeking men abroad. Sometimes it almost sounds that if she is so beautiful why she can’t find a man at home? Maybe, there is something wrong with her? Or maybe she is just hunting for some rich old guy to get his money?

To say that those concerns are without merit will be to lie. There are all kinds of women in Russia, as well as in any other country – you can meet a treasure hunter in your own backyard, figuratively speaking. In order to understand why Russian ladies are looking for foreign husbands it is necessary to have a deeper look into Russian history.

Since Socialist Revolution Russia (Soviet Union) was steadily loosing its male population. Stalin’s repressions bled the nation’s intelligent and educated men, while World War II further reduced the amount of men in the nation. The total number of population Russia lost in the war was about 20 million people, mostly men. This imbalance created a so-called “domino effect” and was further enhanced by a10-year war in Afghanistan in the 70-s.

This situation was further enhanced with the fact that a lot of Russian men are heavily abusing alcohol and drugs and simply don’t possess the qualities which Russian women look for in men in order to have a family. What are those qualities?

Historically, Russian women are looking for a strong, responsible man who is capable of taking care of his family. It does not mean that a Russian woman would just demand more and more money and will not contribute to the financial well-being of the family anyway she could. It means that she still feels that the main function of a woman is to care for children and create a quiet and stable environment at home while man’s responsibility is to provide said family with means for comfortable existence. Simply put, woman is there to keep the fire in the cave, while man is there to provide meat.

That is why sometimes Russian women are looking for men who are significantly older. It means that those men are more stable, and not only financially. It means that men are better understanding the meaning of family in traditional sense and also are willing to work harder to keep and develop relationship. With more and more emphasis Western men putting on fitness, a lot of 40-50-60 year old men are fit to successfully court, date and marry 20-30-40 year old ladies.

If you are going to look for a Russian lady for a long and loving relationship, you need to follow you heart and use common sense. With persistence and patience you will be able to find the perfect Russian lady to proudly name your lovely wife.